06 May 2010
alone with the alone, originally uploaded by Emir Ozsahin.
It is easy to recognize the moment when we have entered the orbit of a snob. Early on in an encounter, the subject of what we "do" will arise and depending on how we answer, we will either be the recipient of bountiful attention or the catalysts of urgent disgust.
The company of the snobbish has the power to enrage and unnerve because we sense how little of who we are deep down - that is, how little of who we are outside of our status - will be able to govern their behaviour towards us. We may be endowed with the wisdom of Solomon and have the resourcefulness and intelligence of Odysseus, but if we are unable to wield socially recognized badges of our qualities, our existence will remain a matter of raw indifference to them.
- Status Anxiety,
Alain de Botton
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